Delidding summary
Thanks again.
Let's do a real delidding conclusion and wrapup since the title of the thread says delidding. I would hate wading through 3 pages of rambling posts (and I know my posts do meander) and never figure out what happened. Yes, it worked.
Summary: My 7740X was ok at first. But, after a couple of days of intense benchmarking, high OC, and lots of voltage... suddenly I had temp alarms going off and saw a huge spike in CPU temp when under load. Even my safe 5.0 gig OC ran too hot now. At default speed, it seemed ok. The crappy TIM used by Intel is notorious for failing.
So, I delidded the CPU, which is removal of the IHS. I have a fancy delidding tool, but the X-series processors (socket 2066) are too big to fit into the tool. So, I did it the old school way, with a razor blade. I do not recommend this because it could definitely kill your CPU if you gouge the PCB with the corner of the razor. The Kaby Lake-X is a little easier to do, but the Skylake-X has delicate circuitry around the die that could easily be damaged.
Working slowly and carefully, I managed to finally get the IHS off. I used the razor method to a couple P-4 years ago, but they were a walk in the park compared to this 7740X. The IHS is big and heavy and well cemented on. Oh yeah, almost forgot, not soldered like those pesky Haswells, so no problem there. I was nervous about whether I had damaged my CPU (I had lightly scratched the PCB in a couple places).
I have a lifetime supply of Arctic Silver 5, so since that was the best I had and it was late at night, that's what I used. AS5 seems to have fallen from favor. I have used it for something like 15 years and have found it to be quite reliable. What people forget or maybe don't know is AS5 needs a little time to set up. We used to call it "burn in" time. Give your CPU something to do for a few days while moderately overclocked and with higher than normal vcore (not too high though). Seriously, AS5 gets better after it's been tortured a little. I saw that happen here too.
I have since learned that the big benchmarking overclocking dogs use liquid metal under the IHS. This is apparently the best way to lower temps and sometimes can have dramatic results. I ordered some in case I decide to re-delid.
Long story short, delidding is risky, but sometimes needed for extreme overclocking. It helped me chase down a benching world record.